You’re just trying to find someone to fall in love with, but everyone who falls for you seems like a bad choice. Your personalities collide or they treat you like crazy. Some people attract the wrong people more than others. If you are one of these four zodiac signs, you tend to attract complete duds.
Aries
You are a strong, confident person who makes decisions quickly and easily and is known for getting things done. You give off these vibes as soon as someone meets you, which is why you seem to attract passive people. Sometimes the saying “opposites attract” is negative and not positive, and that’s the case with you, Aries. You end up with people who need you to make all the moves, do all the work, make all the decisions. It can be tiring to always be the one in charge of the relationship. Now that you know this about yourself—that you attract passive people who make you do all the work—you can easily weed them out if you’re looking for a leader with a strong personality like yours.
Cancer
You are sweet, emotional, and sensitive. He always gives people a second chance because he knows that everyone makes mistakes. None of this is bad, and it can be a blessing to people who will properly appreciate it. Unfortunately, these traits also attract people who want to take advantage of you. Some see you as a victim, which means you end up dating bad people who treat you badly because they know you will be patient. It’s a shame that your sweet heart leads others to point you out. Rather than change all these things about yourself, just be aware of the red flags and try to listen to the warning signs before you get too deep.
Virgo
No one is organized like you. Your to-do lists and spreadsheets are legendary. Because of that, you have come to believe that, if you fall in love, you will be falling in love with someone who doesn’t have his life together like you do. The downside to this concept is that you can let a lot slip because “no one will be organized like me.” That’s how you get into relationships with people who do little. They expect you to do all the planning, all the cleaning. And when you suggest they do something, they bring up the lack of weapons and say “but you’re much better at it.” You need someone who really tries, someone who wants to be with you because they know you deserve the world. These people exist, and you shouldn’t accept anything less.
Sagittarius
There are people who go on great adventures, and those who dream of traveling but end up leaving the house. You’re a pioneer, always coming up with fun things to do and making those dreams come true quickly. Unfortunately, you attract people who don’t do much to make their ideas come true. They are attracted to you because you represent what they aspire to be. They want to be a world traveler in perspective. In practice, not so much. Also, in the early stages of dating, both types of people look very similar. It’s easy for you to accidentally fall into a relationship with a homebody who has Pinterest boards full of exotic places they’ll never visit. As soon as you realize that your date really didn’t do much, it’s better to cut ties. You deserve someone who will be with you.
