You have a hard time finding partners who fit easily into your life. He is looking for someone who has his own personality. It won’t work between you and someone who wants to be arm candy. You already have so much going on, there is little room for you to shape your life from someone else’s comfort zone. They should be able to jump in. No toe dipping allowed.
You may be shocked to learn that if you wait too long, you may find someone at the event. Instead of trying to force a round peg into a square hole, look into that hole and consider who already fits. It could be a close friend, a newbie, or the bartender who slides your drink before you even sit down. Just because something is familiar, doesn’t mean you can’t look at it in a new way.
You always need to have fun, Sagittarius, even in love. Everyone thinks you’re afraid of commitment, but you’re just looking for something to commit to. You are not looking for food that you can eat every night for the rest of your life. You want a partner who will spend the rest of his life trying new foods and restaurants by your side. You are so overwhelmed by the days of lack that you are discouraged from putting yourself out there. You have to compare your love life with other joys in your life. For every book, movie, album, coffee, cocktail, and shoe you’ve absolutely adored, how many fat people have you met? The same goes for finding your person.
This may sound harsh, but you’ve been wanting to give up on love because no one seems like you. No one blows up your phone, stalks your Instagram, or exhibits behavior that could be described as clingy. And, part of you wants that. Part of you wants to reject someone – be the one who isn’t into that. One who allows textual discussions to reach their natural conclusion. But, what you really want is mutual love. The kind that happens in rom-coms and books and pop songs. The kind you’ve been thinking about since you were old enough to grasp the concept of romance. Let the chemistry do its work. If you’re not someone else’s cup of tea, there’s no reason to take it personally. You have to be able to see, on some level that they are not yours either. When people really vibrate, it goes both ways.
You’re looking for someone who takes love seriously, Aries. You often feel like you’re stuck in the wrong decade. Well, in part. You don’t want to go back to the racism, classism, or gender roles of yesteryear, but you wouldn’t mind a period piece version – something. Bridgerton– he jumped?. You need something more important than someone whose profile lists hobbies like their dog, friends, and tacos. You need someone with depth and strategy. Someone who will be able to talk to you about the strangest thoughts that come to your mind. You just have to wait for a while, until that person crosses your path. They don’t hide under a rock or from neighbors. You may have to get out there and meet different types of people to find them.
