When you’re in a relationship, you’re very romantic and romantic – it’s the part of falling in love that you struggle with. You don’t know how to strike a healthy balance between your professional life and your personal life. And on top of this, you also have trouble opening up emotionally. So your problems with making space in your dating and love life, combined with your reluctance to open up emotionally, make it pretty clear why you’re single.
You have no problems making friends, but you do experience challenges when it comes to calming down, focusing, and staying long enough to focus on one person. You are always on the move, jumping from one thing in your life to the next. In many ways, this is very good for your life – good for your work, your dreams, your interests and hobbies. But you don’t know how to reign in that aspect of your personality when it comes to dating – so instead of letting yourself slow down and fall for someone you really like, you just go from one person to another, you’re too scared to let anyone get close to you.
You are so busy taking care of everyone and trying to make everyone happy that you forget to maintain some focus for your own happiness, too. He is a compassionate, reliable friend, with a boundless source of sympathy for everyone he meets. But when it comes to following what you want (in love, but in other areas of your life), you keep quiet, hide your feelings, and don’t let yourself fall.
Some people have trouble being afraid to fall in love at all, but you fall again immediately. You have so much to offer – so much love, and strength, and joy, and simplicity – and that’s wonderful. But sometimes, you give to the wrong people, who don’t deserve it and will take it for granted. You get addicted to falling high and you don’t care about saving your heart from those people who really deserve you, so you keep walking in broken relationships with people who don’t deserve you.
Your drive, intelligence, and motivation are the reasons why you have come so far in your life. But when it comes to love, these traits can lead you to sometimes look at love as a game, something you can control, and something that must follow a certain set of rules. And this is where you run into trouble. You are alone because you always want to plan all aspects of your love story, and have a say in every quality and feature you want your significant other to have, instead of allowing yourself to enjoy the experience of falling for someone you really care about, and learning how much you will look past certain ‘flaws’ or personality traits when you find someone you really love and care about.
You are alone because you allow your pain and the pain from past experiences and relationships to keep you living in the past – instead of living in the present and looking to the future. You are a very sensitive person, and in many ways, that is a wonderful and rare quality. But it becomes a problem when you let it negatively affect the decisions you make – when you let your hurt and sensitivity keep you stuck and stuck in the past instead of encouraging yourself to move on to someone who is truly worth giving.
Being the friendly, lovable, and approachable person that you are, you have a hard time being passive in your love life. Instead of being outgoing and warm like you usually are, when it comes to your love life, you just sit back, be quiet, and hope that something will fall into your lap. You hesitate to put yourself out there and never do anything about it when you have feelings for someone, which is why you remain alone regardless of how much people are attracted to you.
Your natural tendency towards leadership is one of your best traits, except when it makes you try to take control of your love life and relationships. You tend to act impulsively when something goes wrong in your relationship, because you fear the fact that you can only control your actions, rather than being able to control the whole situation. Until you learn to manage your pride and your stubborn desire for control, you will continue to be alone.
You don’t have confidence and self-esteem issues – you know who you are and what you want in your life as a whole, including your love life. The issue stems from the fact that although you are gentle and encouraging, you can be very critical and judgmental of others. It’s important to have values and believe that you deserve someone great and kind and loyal, but that doesn’t mean you can spend your days trying to change your significant other into yours the idea of a perfect partner.
You are truly a rare breed – the kind of person who is kind and sincere, without spending too much time worrying about what other people think of you. But the reason you are alone is because you are do don’t let other people’s opinions have too much power over your love life and dating choices. People can judge you or make fun of you all they want – you will continue to brush off their backstabbing and continue to be yourself. But when it comes to your significant other, you focus more on everyone else’s opinions and approval, instead of just deciding what’s best for you.
When you let someone in, you become an incredibly deep, loyal, and loving partner. So your issue comes from the original entry-person part of the dating experience. You have a sharp mind and healthy energy, but you tend to withdraw and harden your heart when someone really tries to get to know you on a deeper level. Until you see what joy and happiness in love do not get out of protecting your heart and keeping it away, you will continue to be alone.
He is considered a great friend, co-worker, and a lovely person to be around. Easy going and playful with a great sense of humor. Your problem with love is that you look for it again logically too again honestly. It’s good to be aware of the decisions you make and think about what you want, but if all you do is refuse to take risks, and get stuck in decisions until you know the whole truth, you won’t find your man.
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