I realized that people have a way of bringing you down or trying to lift you up. I realized that when you talk to people about what’s bothering you, they don’t try to understand where you’re coming from, they want to hear their voice. I realized that people don’t always know how to comfort you when you cry or feel sad because they don’t know the depth of your pain or what’s happening inside you.
But God knows, God understands the words you cannot speak, the emotions that kill you and the extent of your pain. God knows what you are hiding and why you are suffering. God knows what you do not yet know.
I realized that people will try to tell you how you should feel. They will say that you are emotionally traumatized or that it is your fault that you expect too much or find a way to blame you for putting yourself through this pain because if you were wise, if you were very wise, if you were strong, you would not have done this, you would not have put yourself in this situation.
But God does not judge. God listens. God understands. God does not point fingers. God knows what is in your heart.
I realized that people will say things that don’t make you feel better, like ‘It will happen when you least expect it,’ or ‘everything happens for a reason,’ or ‘you don’t know what the future holds.’ But they don’t hold you when you cry, they don’t check on you when you go home, they don’t call you to make sure you’re okay, and they don’t care if you’ve passed a certain point, passed a certain stage, passed a certain stage. a minute.
But God stays with you when everyone else leaves. God is not temporarily. God will not say things he does not mean. God gives you time and space to heal before He blesses you. God takes away some things because He plans to give you something else.
I realized that when you talk to people about your problems, they make you feel more difficult. They make you feel misunderstood, they make you feel like you’re not allowed to be who you are or allow your feelings. I realized that people only like you when you are happy and simple, not when you are sad and burdened. I realized that people only want you when you are happy and loud, not when you are down and quiet, and I realized that people will only be there for you for a short time before they move on and go back to their lives.
But God loves you in every situation. God loves you anyway. Whether you are happy or sad, whether you are heavy or light, whether you are angry or calm, whether you are strong or weak. God does not discrimination.
He doesn’t like one version of you more than the other. God he accepts you. God keeps bringing you closer to him because he wants you to learn that no matter how much people love you, don’t rely on them to heal you, and don’t rely on them to fix you. Because God is the only healer, he is the only healer, and maybe all our problems are just different lessons to bring us to this awareness and bring us to this conclusion: God is the only solver of problems. God is the solution.
