Everyone knows you’re lonely, Virgo. Your whole outlook on life embraces the declaration that you don’t need another person. You can do it all yourself. You are enough. Meets all your needs. For the most part, that’s true, as far as basic needs are concerned. You can feed and clothe yourself. Your maintenance and repair schedules are like Swiss clockwork. But friendship can be a necessity too, Virgo, even if you see it as a luxury. Something unnecessary or unreasonable. It doesn’t make you weak or less independent to want to share your thoughts and feelings with someone. To want to enjoy someone else’s company. The quiet comfort of being seen and accepted and loved as you are. You want reassurance in many other aspects of your life. It’s time to indulge in a healthy version of it. The kind that will really satisfy you.
Many people love you, Leo, but it’s not enough for you—space is always there, always there and very visible. You are tired of being loved, of being admired, of being someone else’s stepping stone to social mobility. You want to be loved. You want to be adored in those first moments of a new morning when your hair is dirty and your spirit can only be described as dirty. You want to be close to someone who knows nothing about you, your life, who you know, who you know. You want someone to see through some supernatural ability an idea of who you are at your core. To be interested in finding out how true that idea is, like a negative painting on a canvas that is slowly and carefully filled with paint until the true picture emerges. For that to happen, you should meet strangers this month and enter unfamiliar circles.
You’ve been going back and forth between two equally irreverent versions of yourself, Gemini. You play to competing ideas instead of staying true to yourself and breaking the mold. You have trouble saying who you really are, because you don’t have a blueprint for the life you really want. Parts of your heart yearn for traditional and epic roles, while others strive for non-conformity. Every time you depend on one part of your desires, you do so in a way that destroys the other, not realizing that you can approach things in a way that allows you to have the best of both worlds. Once you have overcome this internal battle, you can present a complete and accurate version of yourself to the world. People only see what you let them see, and until you can show someone the whole picture, they’ll never get the chance to sign up for the real thing.
You have this tendency to resist love, Aries, to push away the very thing you want most. You make a lot of assumptions that the people you want will never want you back, even though you never have a clear reason why. It’s just this innate sense of inadequacy. You think your past failures in relationships define your ability to love. You ignore all the lessons you’ve learned, all the ways your experience has allowed you to grow as a person and as a colleague. You will never go into the next relationship the same way you did the last one. You have new tools and a broader perspective to help you in your endeavors. You need to change the way you see yourself. You need to believe, more than anyone else, that you deserve the love you crave. You need to see all the value you bring to the table, how much you can give to your significant other. Only then will you learn to accept in return.
