CANCER
You are the type that suffers from Cancer in silence, but you do not hide your feelings because of shame. You don’t feel the need to draw attention to yourself after a breakup, no matter how serious the relationship was. You don’t go looking for pity or revenge. You just deal with your hurt in private. Your life is not a show for the entertainment of others, and you still respect and honor relationships and privacy, even after it’s over. Sure, you’ll open up a little to your best friend, but then you’ll move on. You focus on what’s next, what you love about yourself, and everything else in your life that you’re grateful for. You don’t ignore disappointment, but you don’t let it take center stage. If you are talking about yourself, you can confidently admit your past relationships, but briefly. You don’t focus on them. You never see yourself as “wounded” after a breakup, and you never go back to the world of dating too soon. Others appreciate how emotionally available and open you are to making new connections.
LIBRA
You know that separation is a natural part of life, Libra. We grow, we grow, we change, and some of the people who come into our lives will eventually have to leave us, and that’s okay. Every time you enter into a relationship, you do so knowing that breakup is a possible outcome, a risk you deliberately decide to take. The reason you are so comfortable admitting your loss is that you are always looking at the whole picture. You know that breaking up doesn’t mean giving up feelings, memories, or relationships. Deciding to go your separate ways doesn’t erase all the time you spent together. Cutting your losses doesn’t mean you both didn’t put a lot of effort into the relationship. Moving away doesn’t mean you’re left with all the growth and lessons you’ve given each other during your time together. You are the most likely to get things done, cooperate and communicate politely with your loved ones. Pettier signs wondering how to do it.
SCORPIO
You love all things romantic, Scorpio. Infatuations, chases, first kisses, dates, memories, and even breakups. You feel very deeply, and the bookworm in you likes to live through all the experiences you used to read about and imagine for yourself. You are not ashamed of your failed relationships because each breakup is an opportunity to feel all the excitement of a new beginning again. You’re hoping to find your long-term partner, but until you do, why not enjoy the immediacy of communication? Your Bollywood theme song of the year is “Pyaar Hota Kayi Baar Hai” which translates to “Love Happens Many Times”. There are so many people who have lined up a chance with you, Scorpio, it seems only right to give at least a few of them a chance. You gain experience in each relationship, and learn about yourself, others, your needs, and your boundaries. You will never see that as a loss.
PISCES
You find inspiration in heartbreak, Pisces. That she is Maggie Nelson Bluet’s type or Die-hard Swiftie, you know the equal division the masses relate to. Even if your diary is full of reading, you still secretly think it’s a gold mine. There won’t be Unfocusedno Eat, Pray, Love that didn’t start with divorce. No 500 days of summer without separation. Because you see life through the lens of an artist, your focus is on capturing and interpreting the emotions of your personal experience and finding a way to translate them into creation. It doesn’t matter which one you’re in, you’ll create a Lego sculpture that embodies heartbreak or dial up the perfect recipe for the perfect cookie to eat during a breakup. Whatever your process, art expressions help you process your feelings but also allow you to connect with others. We all experience the disappointment of failed relationships. Why would you ever be ashamed of something that is quintessentially human?
