Aries (March 21-April 19)
Although it’s better said than done, patience, Aries, will do wonders for your married life than you think. Your next phase is no longer about you but your partner and you. Patience will reduce your periods of anger and rage, which any marriage is better off without. Also, putting others before yourself is not a sign of weakness but a sign of strength. Ultimately, this will strengthen your connection with your partner in the long run.
Taurus (April 20-May 20)
Don’t get stuck in the way, Taurus. Continue to love your partner to keep that love alive. Shower them with gifts on random dates, buy them a bouquet just because, or take them out to dinner every week or two. Don’t forget that you both have needs, and you rely on each other to meet them. Sure, married life has a set of responsibilities to ensure success, but don’t discount your communication as less important.
Gemini (May 21- June 20)
The journey you are about to take is more exciting than you think. Although you may feel as if you are about to be arrested, the truth is that your freedom and identity are about to be enhanced. The challenges you will face will push your mind to think of a range of solutions. The little discouragement you will feel will have your head and heart finally working together to ensure you stay on the right track.
Cancer (June 21- July 22)
Hold on to what makes you who you are, dear Cancer. Although this next step is in your wheelhouse, don’t forget to take care of yourself in the long run. You have so much to do in the next few years that I fear you may lose sight of who you are because of it. So, I hope you never stop going to that yoga class, having brunch with your girlfriends, or even taking five minutes off your day.
Leo (July 23- August 22)
Dear Leo, as you move on to the next stage in life, remember that it’s not always about you. We all know you are a strong independent woman with a lot of love to give, but don’t let that love turn into a need to control. Learn to let go of your ego, ask for help, and let others lead for once.
Virgo (August 23- September 22)
No marriage is perfect. You can try to do everything, but there is no stopping life from its inevitability. Try and sharpen your listening skills—the next few years can be too much for just one person to handle. So, try to tap into those opinions from those closest to you because most of the time, they mean well.
Libra (September 23- October 22)
Don’t forget your magic, dear Libra. Don’t forget the best parts of you and all the qualities that make you beautiful. Although the marriage will feel like it’s floating on a cloud at first, it’s what comes crashing down after the honeymoon that you’ll have to watch out for. I have no doubt that there will be many things to prioritize, but never leave them out of that equation.
Scorpio (October 23- November 21)
There will be other people who will love your future spouse and children as much as you do. There may be days when the time spent with them may not be equally shared with you, and that is okay. Even if no one can deny your love for your future family, don’t forget that it is healthy for them to spend quality time with their friends as they do with you.
Sagittarius (November 22- December 21)
Dear Sagittarius, marriage IS an adventure in itself. There is no need to feel trapped because you should be excited about your next chapter. Try to bite your tongue whenever you can again. Being frank may not be helpful in the long run when your future spouse and children try to confide in you.
Capricorn (December 22- January 19)
There is no doubt that you love your job, but we know how much you love the one closest to you even more. Although married life may require many practical responsibilities, please do not forget to make time for the one you love the most. It’s important to spend quality time with your partner, because you both don’t want to end up feeling alone.
Aquarius (January 20- February 18)
Learn to be more flexible, dear Aquarius. You will need it for the next few years which require a lot of compromise. We know you’re rebellious and proud of your thoughts and opinions, but sometimes—especially in marriage—you have to learn to bend over and see it as a way to grow yourself and not feel restricted by it.
Pisces (February 19- March 20)
Find beauty in the moment, dear Pisces. Indeed, not every day is a good day, but there is always something good in every day. It may seem easy to want to escape when things get tough, but staying and weathering the storm with someone you love makes any marriage stronger.
