1. November
Those born in November remember every word you ever said, like a human court press. Even if they refuse to answer in a fight, they internalize your every response and will spend hours mulling it over to process their feelings. During good times, they pick up on all your interests and preferences, and their attention to detail shows how much they love you. Masters of nostalgia, can recreate moments of the past, because they are well preserved in their memories.
2. December
Someone born in December wants to be Sherlock Holmes so badly, they pay attention as if every little detail in life is a clue that needs to be saved for later. It can be painful to watch TV, rewinding whenever they don’t hear a line of dialogue, because it can be a foreshadowing plot. They will do the same for serious conversations. Without being too intrusive, they will make sure they are on the same page with you, following your imagination. They want to understand you and your feelings better than you do.
3. July
Those with July birthdays are reserved by nature, and thus listen more than they do talking. But they are the best and most loyal listeners of the year sign. They never make you feel judged, and always have your back. People sometimes know how to take advantage of themselves, but with good nature, it rarely comes to them. They know what it’s like to need to be understood and try to give that grace to anyone who feels comfortable enough to be with them to open up.
4. January
People born in January are goody two shoes listeners. These are the ones who write down notes because they think there will be pop questions. They listen carefully because they want to gain an advantage over their competition. To have information that others want or need, but were not paying enough attention to. They are the ones who read the instructions all the way through before starting the first step, so they are always close by in case of an emergency. They are always prepared.
5. October
People born in October give as much as they take, making them the best conversationalists of the year. They do their fair share of listening but process that information quickly to contribute something to the topic. They show insight by making connections with their personal lives or interests. It helps the people you interact with feel seen and heard on a deeper level. In order to do this effectively, they must pay attention, not just wait for their turn to speak.
6. June
People born in June are the ones who take minutes in every meeting. They do their best to listen to the conversation, but they can’t always keep up. They are so focused on the task at hand and are so concerned with writing down exactly what is being said, that they can get lost along the way. Instead of being up-to-date, they type or write, and can’t really convey or synthesize information beyond word-for-word. They are the type that will let everything sink in once they are able to re-read what they wrote.
7. May
Those born in May are always focused on trends. They listen to people who they consider worthy of the title of ‘tastemaker’. Others block them as noise. You can see when someone has photographed someone born in May, and when they haven’t. They are the type who will turn off their camera in a Zoom meeting they consider ‘unimportant’, but will end up making clear eye contact when fully engaged in the conversation. There is some information that they find valuable, and some that they see as a waste of time.
8. August
Poor people born in August have so much gossip, it is not expected that they will end up straight, that is why they are sometimes caught with their foot in their mouth repeating false information. After all, they are one link in a big game of telephone with all their friends and acquaintances. The intel they get can’t always be trusted. They are the type that will only listen if the content is interesting enough.
9. April
Those born in April are also picky listeners. They can be compassionate and understanding towards the people they claim to be their own. But when it comes to an argument, those born in April will only listen to their own logic. It is how they maintain strong beliefs. It helps when they need to be patient when they are rejected, but it is difficult when it comes to compromising or entering the competition. You can try your best to pass but don’t say I didn’t warn you.
10. February
Those born in February have earned the right to tune into the world. They often pursue jobs where human interaction is required at a high volume, and when they get home at night, sometimes they just need to go check on themselves. Doctors and politicians at the grassroots level of the world just want to watch something simple and useless in their spare time. They don’t want to have deep conversations when their emotional reserve is over. It’s all about reading the room and having the right timing.
11. September
September natives know they are right, and any argument you make is a waste of time. When you’re done talking, if you even wait that long, you’ll get bulldozed by their superior argumentative skills. They can’t stand for the people who are speaking to feel for themselves, so if you want them to listen, you have to show that you have thought through your words in advance and that they have meaning and purpose. If not, they might drown you in a podcast.
12. March
March they want to listen, they really listen, but they have one foot on the ground and the other is in the world of dreams that they find impossible to emerge from fully. When you ask what they want for dinner, they ponder the purpose of their existence, and are so deep in thought that they cannot be distracted by questions like “Corn or flour tortillas?”. Just respect their process and make the ultimate decision on the things that don’t matter.
