April
When April ends, they want to know that someone else can be strong, even when they can’t. Keeping a level head, and an air of confidence will give them a much-needed sense of security during the odd time of raw emotion.
May
A person born in May cries in tears for the loss of something that cannot be replaced. Legacies, time, loved ones. Understanding the depth of their grief, even if it’s a small thing that is especially sympathetic to them, will help them feel seen and validated.
June
A person born in June just wants you to listen. They don’t want solutions. They don’t want to be told everything will be fine. They need a shoulder to cry on, and someone to confide in. Summarizing the issue will let them know that their feelings are important to you.
July
You don’t have to say anything to crying July. Big feelings make them uncomfortable. The best thing you can do is provide a reassuring physical presence. A friend who will stay by his side, a partner who will hold him. Anything that shows you can’t run away.
August
August natives like to feel validated. Acting out their feelings, or taking their side will help them deal with whatever is troubling them. They want to know that someone is standing in their corner, even if there is no specific person to blame. Sometimes an August born just needs to hear someone say “Life is a dog.”
September
Most of the time with someone born in September you have to act like nothing happened, step back without making eye contact, and never admit that you saw them in danger. Unless you’re the one person in the world they want to get hold of.
October
A person born in October will correct their feelings and apologize for their reaction. Remind them that it is okay to cry. Even if they are smart, knowledgeable, and mature enough, they just need to get it all out. Understanding their feelings doesn’t mean they don’t need to do their job.
November
People born in November need love, even in the most difficult times. They wipe their tears, stroke their hair, wrap themselves in a blanket, and rub their foreheads. Anything repetitive and cool enough to give them relief, and put them to good sleep. Big emotions drain them.
December
A person born in December just needs to be talked out of trouble. For all their simple ways, they tend to have moments of melancholy. Whether it’s going to happen or not, they want to be told that everything is going to be okay and to be reminded of something good.
January
Those born in January need something productive to focus on. Something that makes them feel capable at a time when they feel helpless. Obviously give them time to calm down, but once they do, get them to help you with it, it will pick up the mood quickly.
February
February natives need help turning empathy into action. They will literally soak up all the details of a disaster anywhere in the world and cry to people they don’t even know. Shifting their focus to what they can do to provide help or relief will help them break out of their emotional paralysis.
March
A person born in March just needs to connect the dots. Many times they will feel something and express their feelings before understanding the source of all the overflow. Helping them talk about what caused their reaction will allow them to find the clarity they need to find peace.
