Aries
Aries, you are ready to put yourself in a very vulnerable situation, to end it investigationin trying to gauge how someone else is invested and just laying your cards on the table. This is the most fun you’ve had in a long time, and there’s no reason to hide it. You don’t back down from a fight, but no one wins if you only fight yourself. This month you will finally change the way you think. You will see that being true to yourself and your feelings will not put you in a situation. You have every chance that these feelings will come back, and the worst possible thing is that they don’t, or they do but it doesn’t work out. And that’s perfectly fine. You will end the experience knowing that you are able to love as much as you can, to give without asking for anything in return. The ideal partner will need that from you to start and maintain a strong relationship. So get rid of your fear and try this. The best thing that can happen is much better than you can imagine.
Taurus
Taurus, you are ready to stop comparing your relationship with everyone around you. It can be hard to put yourself out there when you are surrounded by breakups and betrayals. It’s really hard to let your happiness shine through when others close to you are hurting, but you can’t let this opportunity pass you by. Your partner has shown that you can trust him, and you cannot punish him for someone else’s mistakes. You will not hide the world from them as something you can be ashamed of, because you think it is not the right time to ask people to enjoy you. You will learn how to focus on both of you. Your needs. Your demands. Your achievements and milestones. It is not your responsibility to hide or minimize that you are succeeding together to protect the feelings of the world. Ultimately, it’s a realignment of priorities. When your partner is number one, what others think or have to say does not come before the two of you. Commitment is about drawing that clear line in the sand and keeping it from being crossed.
Libra
You’ve come so far, Libra, with your focus and dedication. With the goals you have set for yourself and the plans you have created to achieve each set of goals. You had to be completely devoted to yourself, there was no time for a partner until now. You will see that there is no one way to get to the place you see. Not all lifestyles are a one-way street—the next leg of your journey may be destined for a carpool. The right person won’t need you to slow down, give up your dreams, shine a little brighter, but he will come with his goals and desires. Commitment will involve both of you figuring out how it all fits together. To build a life that looks like a road trip with many stops along the way, it is up to both of you to fit in the things that enrich and fulfill you both. How you make space to fit each other’s lives, not to contain the other within you, but on the same track. A little feng shui that allows you both to go through life holding each other. Repotting the two of you in a larger container to continue growing while your roots slowly merge.
Aquarius
You will find a vein of selfishness, Aquarius. The one that lets you put your relationship before saving the world. That allows you to pause and focus on the needs of the person you love before there are many things in the world that are asking you, or even problems that you feel responsible for because you see them clearly. Your commitment will be the decision to put your own oxygen mask before someone else’s. The truth is that the more you give to this relationship, the more you get back, and it’s okay to fully enjoy and embrace what you grow. If anything, the support you receive will give you a solid foundation on which to continue doing the good you do in the world. Having that person to take things off of, to calm down after a bad day, will give you a way to start each morning with a fresh thought, with recharged batteries and a clean slate. If you’re honest with yourself, you’ll realize that you’ll regret putting this relationship on the back burner so you can keep dating and prioritize responsibilities. That developing a deep personal connection is what you need to get going.
