4 Zodiac Signs That Don’t Find Love Because They Mess Up Their Relationships
ARIES
Aries turns and runs at the first sign of criticism. A partner who truly sees them for who they are, flaws front and center, is bound to speak up at some point, call them out or challenge them to be better, and Aries can’t handle being under the microscope like that. Instead of admitting that the other person is right, they numb and shut down their emotions, putting a wall between themselves and their lover. Even though this level of intimacy is exactly what they want most, finding it is terrifying and terrifying to those who run away from it. They will never be able to form a strong bond with another person until they learn to overcome this fear. If they do, they will begin a process of self-discovery and self-development that will usher them into a new era of maturity.
LIBRA
Libra moderates their whirlwind love for self-control, but in the process sacrifices authenticity. They start a relationship without saying what they really mean, they never express their true thoughts, they never show who they really are. My partner is experiencing a watery version of Libra, and while he may take notes of something positive, there is no doubt that something is sorely lacking. It’s like going to a South Asian buffet and ordering a plain dosa only when you’re supposed to load it with vegetables, chili, masala, and toss it in sambar and two different kinds of chutney. Libra is meant to shine in its full complexity, with all their baggage, and the story of their lives built upon it. Hiding with a dating profile that says they like “tacos” and “dogs” is an insult to humanity.
TAURUS
Taurus will allow the first tiff to make or break a relationship, emphasizing the “break”. They place great importance on establishing this example of dominance in their relationships. They want to see that someone will apologize first, he will be the one who will pursue them, abandon the ego to keep Taurus by their side. Taurus wants real proof that this person won’t leave them, no matter how heartless they may seem in the process. It’s all a tug-of-war for them, which ends badly when someone else takes this fake fight personally. Some people don’t want to be pushed and pulled and pushed all over again. Some people want something specific in its stability. They just won’t get it with Taurus.
CANCER
The problem with Cancer is that they can be patient when there is a mistake. They think they need to give their partner a way to see, accept, and express their feelings, but sometimes people wait for Cancer to make the first move. Because Cancer comes across as a people pleaser, it can be difficult to read their true feelings. Their partners want to know if they really love them, or if Cancer is agreeable and easy to talk to throughout their days. He doesn’t know if he’s expecting a late-night text that acknowledges their feelings, or a text that says “hey this was great, but” let him down easily. Cancer destroys their communication by giving more space to the other party. Instead of encouraging intimate communication, they give the impression that everything is platonic in the process.
