You feel lost, Virgo, whenever you don’t have an answer to something right away. You can’t deal with the inconsistency of the role you show in the outside world. The one who has everything together. The one who always has a plan. He who has never offended anyone. You fail to see that the good things about you take time. You are independent because you have learned to take care of yourself. You are strong because you have spent time struggling. You are determined because you have seen the long-term effort bear fruit. So remember those moments this month. Remember how you have to take in the world around you before you create your own plans and ideas. How to be quiet before you have the first thing to say. Discussion and learning are not the same thing as doing nothing. Give yourself permission to put things together before you jump into action.
You’ve been missing something, Libra, but you can’t put your finger on what it is. This absence seems to throw off everything else in your life, and you’re so frustrated that you can’t just fix it. So you run through a checklist of all the things that could or should be. You get more sleep. He is reading a book. You try to eat healthy. He spends time with friends. You get up and walk around. You buy yourself a treat. But nothing seems to do the trick. This month you will stop focusing so much on how you should feel, and how you feel. You will listen to yourself and find out if this is growing pains, or something else. Maybe you were forcing yourself to do things that weren’t meant for you. We all have to take care of ourselves, but it doesn’t have to be such a chore. Let yourself be happy.
You want to be good at everything, Sagittarius, and you want to enjoy doing it at the same time. But it is rare in life that the rules are laid out in such a way that everything goes together in that way. You are lost because you cannot distinguish between putting in work, and unnecessary suffering, so you find yourself caught up in your analysis of disability. There are times when your all-or-nothing attitude propels you to success and at others it holds you back. This month you will learn to balance the things you are good at and enjoy those you struggle with or see as royal pain. You will learn to manage your time in a way that makes room for everything. The highs and lows will begin to melt into a healthy level where you can find stability. Having a bigger picture to zoom in and focus on will allow you to put different areas of your life into perspective.
You feel lost, Aquarius, because a member of your support system is not in action. You feel like things have been going in one direction lately, and you find yourself emotionally drained from all the giving you’ve been doing. It’s hard to take that pivot away from someone you’ve been looking to for encouragement and validation, but when the revenge ends, you have to take care of yourself. You will find your way this month when you are able to make peace with the memory of what this relationship used to be like, compared to the reality of it now. Part of accepting change is being able to see the past and the present aside. Just because someone isn’t into you now doesn’t mean they were a bad friend, just like being a friend for a long time doesn’t mean you can’t see red flags right now. We can resist accepting conflict, but it doesn’t make for a balanced equation.
