Aries need to accept contradictions in their life in order to find happiness. It could be the serial killers, the stay-at-home moms who are entrepreneurs, the smart kids who can’t use a microwave. The biggest change Aries needs to make is to stop trying to justify and explain the parts of their lives that don’t seem to fit together. Juxtaposition exists throughout life. Humans are complex, messy, incoherent things. We make mistakes, we get confused, and sometimes it doesn’t make sense. So if you’re an Aries you get into it Love Is Blind again Battlestar Galactica, you can let both of those aspects of you exist together without real meaning. This is a long way of saying be yourself, unapologetically, but you get the gist.
Taurus focuses on doing things to the extreme. Buying a real designer, top-rated product, making a coveted reservation, but their happiness depends on them accepting a budget, DIY version of their other dreams. You can’t have Nobu for dinner every night. You can’t vacation in paradise every week. Bedsickness is not a fashion show, and it happens to all of us. Things that take time and effort and planning are always more profitable than something you get by swiping a credit card. Repeating that Michelin dish, decorating the place you are happy to come home to, knitting a sweater with your own two hands. It is not to settle or leave your dreams behind, but to show that there is something in between. Go big or go home isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. Sometimes it’s better to go home with something that fits you.
Gemini, learning to adjust will be the biggest challenge of your life, but it will also be the most rewarding. You tend to dig in your heels, crawl and hold your way until you reach the finish line, convincing yourself that the suffering will be worth it, so that you don’t know when you lose your loss. Not every project you start (or someone you volunteer for) is worth finishing. Every book you pick up doesn’t need to be read to the last page. Every relationship that begins will not end on the deathbed after 60 years of marriage. Some things are meant to be picked up over time. Try it once or twice. They are thrown out because they are cheaply made or of poor quality. And that’s fine. You have permission to travel. To pivot. Deciding that something is not for you without changing something that is. Sometimes giving up is closing a chapter that no longer has to be told.
This is crazy, Cancer, but sometimes you have to give people a second chance. They’re learning and growing, just like you, and there’s no guarantee they’ll get it right on the first try. It could be a partner, a friend, a family member, it doesn’t matter. Those walls you built because you don’t want to get hurt again are actually preventing you from seeing what change, growth, and forgiveness can do in a relationship. You may be denying the part of you that wants access to information, that wants to say something, the part that wants answers or closure or some other end without cutting off all communication. It’s okay to give people the benefit of the doubt or cut them some slack. You don’t need to abide by a strict “one claim, you’re out” policy.
