VIRGO
Virgo learns that what is said to them will not feel like competition. The excitement and adrenaline that used to come from getting someone else’s attention or playing “the game” better than any VH1 contestant you know by her stage name isn’t enough. Virgo is looking for someone who is passionate by nature. They should not fight, or bend to keep their soulmate invested. Chemistry is chemistry. Things are attractive, or they are not. Either they respond to certain stimuli or situations or they don’t. Love should be like a simple recipe for comfort food. A few solid things that go well together, without a crazy amount of time or effort, like a grilled cheese or a chocolate chip cookie. Virgo learns that life is not about keeping other people from what you have. The truth is that good deals, like toasted sandwiches and baked goods can be found in abundance. It’s about learning to appreciate all the little ways in front of you that are special. It’s compatible. It is there for you whenever you need it. The secret recipe is yours.
CANCER
Cancer learns that most of their jealousy comes from a lack of self-confidence. Part of them assumes that someone else can fit into the equation because something is missing. Something they don’t bring to the table. Once Cancer realizes that this way of thinking and thinking is the best, they can discuss these things with their partner, talk to them as individuals. Whether the insecurities are physical, financial, social or otherwise, Cancers can be open about what really bothers them, and find different ways to reframe the way they see themselves. The truth is that no one is forced to have them. So if their partner really wants someone with different qualities, there would be nothing to stop them from leaving the relationship to find someone like that. Cancer is an open book, so whoever is on their side choose them on purpose. They just bide their time and wait for the business owner of the athlete slash slash professional actor to come by and steal from them. Cancer just needs to admit that their fear is a desire to be something that still works.
PISCES
Pisces learn that their jealousy is a desire for things they have never raised their hand to ask for. Seeing a picture, video, post on someone’s social media page and wondering, “what wasn’t me? The answer, more often than not, is because they didn’t try. Pisces didn’t book a flight to Istanbul, research an itinerary, book accommodation, pack a suitcase and go to the airport. Pisces didn’t get engaged this holiday because they didn’t prioritize dating or open up as much as possible on the days they went this year. Pisces didn’t bake a cake from scratch because they chose GrubHub. The lesson here is threefold. One – if Pisces wanted these things, really prioritized them, they could have them. Two – what Pisces sees on the outside is rarely the full picture. Maybe that trip was exhausting, the relationship is falling apart, and the cake tastes like complete garbage. Third – different is okay, and sometimes different is better. Pisces ultimately knows what is best for them, and they are the decision maker in their life. They need to remember that the path they are on is the one they chose for a reason.
ARIES
Aries learns not to act out of anger. Yes, it’s hard to see someone else have the things we want, want, or had. Watching our crush, ex crush, or ex continue with someone else is annoying. We let go of the plans and thoughts we had drawn in our heads. Wishing that someone sees in us what we see in him. But Aries learns not to take it personally. They remind themselves of all the wonderful people they have met but have no chemistry. People who tried to disappoint them easily. There was nothing personal when they were on the receiving end, so why should anything change when they accepted us? For a relationship to really work, both people must be fully interested. And if one person wasn’t there, then there was no way it could work. Life is too short to hold that for anyone, and every failed or disapproved relationship has the potential to become an important friendship in our lives. There is a chance that something good can come out of that disappointment. Aries would rather be left with something than nothing.
