TAURUS
Taurus is stubborn. They will be so focused on holding their position without moving that they don’t even realize what they are losing in the process. When the dust finally settles, because there is no one left to fight them this time, they will see what happened. Their pride always gets the better of them, and the list of things they have lost in the name of “victory” is too long to list. They weep in secret, knowing in the end all this could have been avoided, but they still don’t change. It’s just how hard he works. They need someone to call their bluff, to get over their emotional side of these arguments, someone to pull them out of it. If that happens, they are ready to come to the negotiating table and sign an agreement.
LEO
Leos take things for granted because they think they will never end. Summer nights, sleepovers with friends, house parties, family vacations, a burrito from the place down the street, relationships, projects, friendships. Their lives are so full, so busy, so social, that it feels like their sources of happiness and entertainment are endless. They are distracted by the present to think about the past or think about the future. We’ve rounded it up by going from one top to the next so you can see how quickly each one goes by. They don’t stop appreciating everything until life forces them too, usually when they feel a great loss. Their disappointment is matched by their confusion. This kind of thing doesn’t happen to Leo—the good old days were last night, weren’t they?
VIRGO
Virgo can’t appreciate what they have until it’s gone because they refuse to show any sign of weakness. They would rather roll over and die than see you hurt them. They will be the ones who will tell you to go away or they will go well apart while crying inside saying they want you to stay. The problem is, that inner voice is buried so deep in their minds that sometimes they can’t even hear it. But they can feel it when they know no one is watching and they can lay on the floor crying and blasting Natalie Imbruglia’s “Torn”. They will suffer for weeks and months, like one of those movie montages where someone stares out the window while it rains, all the while knowing that they can relieve their suffering by picking up the phone.
LIBRA
Libras don’t always see the importance of something beyond their control that gives balance to all their lives. They can’t put too many eggs in any one basket, in an effort to minimize risk, but in the long run they fail to capture all they really have. The regret they feel when they say “basket” is no longer worse than if they entered and lost. They carried all of them what if again can have around them, knowing that the only reason these things did not come true was their own fear. They value balance and caution so much that they miss out on the big, bold emotions that life has to offer. The saddest part is that when the loss hits them, they don’t feel they deserve to grieve more than they know each other.
