We all want love – it’s one of the few things that affects people all over the world to desire a sense of belonging, security, and being valued.
But no matter how much we want it, sometimes we get in our own way. Certain stars build walls around their hearts so high, it’s almost impossible for anyone to break through. Here are the five star signs that protect themselves in love, and how astrology explains their unattainable hearts.
Aries
Aries people are fiery and passionate, so they love to be in love – but they enjoy the early stages of a relationship, and find it difficult to turn the first spark into a lasting flame. One of the biggest obstacles surrounding the hearts of Aries is their fighting spirit. Ruled by Mars, the “warrior planet,” Aries natives are naturally combative and aggressive. They NEVER back down from a fight, and start small fights because they actually enjoy arguing – and winning. Despite the challenge of making a relationship go the distance, Aries people cannot allow themselves to lose an argument or stop fighting. This greatly hinders their ability to find true love, and they need to put down the sword and look for meaningful connections instead of fleeting passion if they want to find a soul mate.
Cancer
Oh, Cancers… all they want is to be loved, but the crab sign can’t help but hide behind their tough outer shell. Although they may seem hard and crunchy at first, they are actually delicious rolls of cinnamon inside. The reason they are so guarded is that they are afraid of getting hurt – as a water sign, they are sensitive and sensitive, and they know it. They don’t want to let someone into their heart, just to break it. They need someone who is patient, understanding, and willing to break down their walls and give them the level of dedication and commitment they desire. Although Cancers have a hard time letting people in, once someone has earned their love and trust, they are in their hearts armed for life.
Virgo
Virgos have two special ways to protect their hearts against love: setting impossible standards, and trying to “fix” their partners. Virgos are notoriously picky and picky – they don’t like the bullying, uncertainty, and lack of control that comes with romantic relationships. If someone doesn’t fit their checklist to a T, they lose all interest. On the other hand, sometimes Virgos do something different and marry someone who doesn’t fit their criteria – with the goal of “fixing” them or making them the perfect partner that Virgos want them to be. But it’s impossible to change someone else, especially if they don’t want to change – and it can be very painful to fall in love with someone who only likes you because of your abilities, not who you are.
Capricorn
Capricorns are complicated, and many of them end up finding love later in life because they resist it. As an earth sign, Capricorns are logical and practical, so they tend to follow their heads instead of their hearts. Although they actually feel very deeply, Capricorns find it difficult to get in touch with their emotions, and have an even harder time expressing their feelings. They want to let someone special in, they just don’t know how – it doesn’t come naturally to them. In addition, their goals and desires often take precedence over finding love. They are also independent and don’t want to appear as if they NEED someone else. It takes a lot to break through the armor surrounding the Capricorn heart, but if it happens, this sensitive zodiac sign will be sacrificed for life.
Aquarius
Aquarians aren’t too worried about finding love, so they aren’t too motivated to break down the walls they have around their hearts. Because of their ruling planet Uranus, Aquarians are naturally rebellious and crazy – they want what they can’t get, so the second someone shows romantic interest, they run away. They also don’t like agreements, so they avoid traditional relationship milestones like marriage, or formal bonds. They are very independent and value their freedom, and they will not give that up to anyone. It’s a real challenge for them to find someone who meets their exact needs: someone who makes them feel secure and understood, while keeping them interested and happy – oh, and giving them plenty of space.
