October
Often, we think we know everything about our loved ones, and you are no different. You think you’ve asked all the questions you need to ask, heard every critical story, memorized all their likes and dislikes, but still, just outside your reach are many thoughts, feelings, and experiences that you can’t really know. And the surprise, for you, is when that truth comes out and rears its ugly head. You don’t know how to react when you are faced with the unknown, the outsider, the stranger to your nearest and dearest. Take it as an opportunity instead of a curse. It is an endless invitation to learn more, to get closer, to understand more deeply, in a meaningful way.
July
You thought your love life was on hold. That everything has stopped after your last failed relationship, and that it will stay that way, maybe forever, unless you make a herculean effort to ‘get yourself back there’, which you have absolutely no intention of doing. But you failed to realize that someone else might be trying to put themselves there with you. He may reach out, and ask for a chance to get to know you better. Even if this catches you off guard and unprepared, don’t use that as an excuse to shut yourself off from the world completely. This connection may be exactly what you need, you just haven’t admitted to yourself that the need exists.
January
Your surprise is seeing. What you thought you wanted turned out not to be right for you. Maybe this person you’ve been chasing has nothing to do with you. Maybe the things you want to be in your relationship, the roles you want to fulfill, are not where you feel most comfortable or at home. Maybe the life you planned with your partner suddenly isn’t where you see yourself heading. You can only be honest in your speech and respect your true feelings. A true partner will be able to change and grow with you, and if that history has not been established, no harm, no harm. Just work on acknowledging your needs instead of hiding them for fear of being alone.
September
Those born in September, your surprise is how completely and desperately you have fallen for something that you considered temporary and unusual. Something is clicking here. There is something free and easy and fun and you find yourself worrying every day about it ending. You’ve built a history of indifference and indifference, so contrary to the strong emotions now, you don’t even know where to start when it comes to changing your tune. How do you convince this person, who has also agreed to take things for granted, that you want intimacy, commitment, and consistency? Often, as a communicator, you feel that words alone will fail you, and maybe that’s for good reason. Sometimes the expression of devotion goes much further.
