The early days can be difficult for anyone, regardless of your birth chart. It helps to feel prepared by knowing a few things about your love interest’s birth month – for example, what they hate on first dates. Here are the deadliest mistakes you could make with each birthday, so you know what to avoid and how to impress them instead. Good luck on your travels, and remember – relax, be yourself, and have fun (and if your date is someone born in August, make sure you give them lots of compliments)!
April: Don’t Take Their Insults Too Much
As the first birth month, those born in April have young children and are inexperienced. When those born in April love, they act like a little kid on the playground – constant teasing that can come off as bullying instead of love. But joking and roasting you is what this birth month does when they are with you. In fact, if your April birthday is too modest, it means that they don’t feel comfortable enough to be themselves. They might be competitive with you and throw out some playful insults on your first date, but they’ll show you how much they love you with a hot kiss at night.
May: Don’t Be Down
Those born in May love comfort, so they are not intimidated by the first date in a high-class restaurant or an expensive opera show – in fact, they love it! If you have the means, splurge on your date with someone born in May. Or at least plan a cheap trip with lavish details, like a picnic with a beautiful wicker basket filled with home-baked or carefully selected goodies and a decent bottle of wine. After all, they deserve it!
June: Don’t bore them
The last thing a person born in June wants to be, whether on a date or elsewhere, is bored. Make sure you bring the fun on your first date with someone born in June. Sometimes silence is a sign of comfort, but those born in June love to talk, so don’t let any silence last long. Come prepared with interesting stories or new facts you’ve learned. Talk about the classes you’re taking, an interesting story you heard, or anything to keep the conversation fresh and flowing.
July: Don’t make fun of them
People born in July are very sensitive, and they want a partner who makes them feel safe and secure. Playful teasing or playing hard to get doesn’t go well with this birth month. Be sweet and sincere on your first date, and let them know how much you love them. A thoughtful gesture like holding the door or helping them put on their coat goes a long way with those born in July.
August: Don’t Forget to Praise Them
Those with August birthdays love attention and thrive on praise, so make sure you celebrate your August birthday with praise on your first day (and every date after that). This birthday loves when you notice the little details about them, so go out of your way to compliment their clothes, hair, creativity, work, and anything else you can think of. If they feel like you love them but also bring plenty to the table yourself, you will definitely get a second date.
September: Don’t Neglect Your Cleanliness
September natives are perfectionists and tend to be neat freaks. Maybe you can get away with not brushing your teeth or skipping perfume/cologne one day, but not this birthday month. Pay close attention to your grooming before hitting the town with someone born in September. You and your clothes need to be freshly washed and smelling good from head to toe if you want to see yourself again.
October: Don’t Dress Like a Slob
People born in October are ruled by Venus, the planet of art, beauty, money, and love. Due to the influence of Venus, those born in October appreciate the finer things in life, and are particularly concerned about their appearance. Your October birthday will be off if you show up in an old, wrinkled t-shirt and sweatpants. But if you take the time to dress well in a formal outfit, they will notice and appreciate the effort.
November: Don’t Tell Them Too Much
Other birth months are happy to hear your whole life story on the first date, but it’s important to show some restraint to someone born in November. This birth month likes to delve into conversations, but they also want to enjoy getting to know you. They may ask you many probing questions while remaining silent. Give enough to show that you are reliable and forthcoming, but hold back interesting details to reveal later when you get to know yourself better.
December: Don’t be afraid to try something new
People born in December are natural explorers and like to try new things. Whether it’s a hot new restaurant or restaurant or an exciting activity like bungee jumping, this birthday month is down to anything on a first date. If you’re making plans, try something fun that you’ve never done before – even if it’s a flop, you’ll laugh about it, and they’ll appreciate you taking a risk (those born in December have a great sense of humor). If they make plans, be prepared for the unexpected, and go with the flow.
January: Don’t be rude
It’s important to be polite on any first date, but it’s especially necessary with someone born in January. Those born in January are elegant, refined and traditional. They appreciate a day when you dress well, have good manners, and are respectful to employees. If you eat with your elbows on the table or ask your server for things without asking, your January birthday will ask for the check before dessert.
February: Don’t Be Traditional
People born in February are perhaps the most unusual and rebellious birth month. February natives don’t like anything fixed and traditional, so plan a strange and unique first date to match their personality. Instead of the usual dinner and a movie, take it to an escape room or a contemporary art exhibit. If you can capture their minds and pique their interest, you can steal their hearts.
March: Don’t Resist Love
People born in March are passionate and passionate. They tend to move quickly in relationships and can be touchy-feely. Your March birthday may want to hold your hand or sit next to you. Don’t resist their love because you’re trying to play hard to get, or they’ll feel like you’re rejecting them. However, if you are really uncomfortable or they make unwanted advances (which can happen in any birth month), feel free to withdraw or leave the situation. But if you love them and they slip their arm around yours as you walk down the aisle, embrace the gesture to let them know you reciprocate their feelings.
