A Toxic Element That Attracts You Like Magnets In Love, According To The Tarot
Everyone has a list of positive qualities they want in a partner – but did you know you’re probably unconsciously looking for toxic traits?
Most of us have experienced dating or being attracted to someone who is bad for us. Whether they’re a toxic person or their qualities don’t match ours, some partners are simply the wrong choice for lasting love. So, what toxic element attracts you like a magnet? Here is the destructive factor you look for in love, according to the tarot.
Aries: Privilege
Your card is 10 of Pentacleswhich symbolizes wealth and inheritance. You’re an interesting mix, Aries – as the first sign of the zodiac, you’re fiercely independent, yet you secretly yearn for someone to take care of you. You may want someone with a productive economy who can take care of you financially. You love a partner from a privileged background, which sometimes comes with some toxic qualities. But if you focus on finances, you don’t really want love. And the wealth generated does not even reflect their work skills or financial skills. Trust in your ability to make and manage money instead of relying on your partner for these things, and focus on building a true loving connection.
Taurus: Humility
Your tarot card Ace of Pentacles, reversedindicating financial instability and missed opportunities. You are the most financially savvy zodiac sign, Taurus, so you don’t have to worry about running out of money. But you tend to resist change, and you might choose a partner who does the same. You like stability in a relationship, but if you both refuse to take risks, you will never progress. You need someone who is more flexible and more forward-looking than you to ensure that you both keep moving forward in life.
Gemini: Chaos
Your card They don’t like it, they retreatwhich is interesting because Lovers is the major arcana tarot card associated with your zodiac sign. When reversed, it represents an unstable relationship and the need for self-reflection and personal growth. You have a multifaceted personality, Gemini, and you want someone who is as versatile as you. But dating someone who is constantly changing means you never know what to expect. Subconsciously you enjoy the chaos of roller-coaster relationships – you hate being bored, so you’d rather have a toxic, uncontrollable love than a stable, secure one. The truth is, you need someone who is not exactly like you to measure you up. Loyalty and flexibility are the qualities you should look for in a romantic partner, instead of the wrong boy/girl you usually like.
Cancer: Emotional Instability
The card issued to you i Knight of Cups, reversedwhich means dishonesty, carelessness, and emotional imbalance. You are a sensitive and sensitive zodiac sign, Cancer, so you accept all the feelings of your partner, even the worst ones. You tolerate emotional outbursts because you understand them well. But you don’t have to put up with reckless or dangerous behavior to prove your love – you deserve stability and calm.
Leo: Adaptation
Your tarot card 8 of cups, reversedwhich shows resistance to change and not letting go of the past. You can be very stubborn and set in your ways, Leo, so you tend to repeat relationship patterns. You go to the same “type” of partner over and over, even though it doesn’t happen. You need to step out of your comfort zone and fall in love with someone you don’t expect, someone unlike anyone you’ve dated before, to break the cycle and find true love.
Virgo: Warning
The card that appeared to you i 6 of cups, reversedwhich shows fear of new experiences. No one would accuse you of being dangerous, Virgo – you are very cautious and make detailed plans for everything you do. While you appreciate your partner’s caution, it’s not what you need – someone like you will feed off your anxiety and make you even more trapped. You need someone to help you throw caution to the wind and take the occasional risk.
Libra: Unfaithfulness
Your card is 4 of the cupswhich means missed opportunities and feeling stuck. You are indecisive, Libra, so you understand this quality in your partner. You can’t judge them by being paralyzed by hesitation and endlessly weighing the pros and cons of every option. But you need someone with a different quality, someone who chooses quickly and confidently. If you choose someone who is as hesitant as you are, you will end up standing still, losing opportunities as you over-analyze them.
Scorpio: Arrogance
Your tarot card The Hierophantwhich represents a spiritual teacher, guidance and wisdom. You give everything in a relationship, Scorpio – you want a true partner, a partner who will stand up for you in everything. But you tend to put too much emphasis on your romantic relationship, letting other aspects of your life suffer. Your partner knows how much you respect him, and that can make him arrogant during the relationship – as if he is your god or mentor rather than your partner’s equal. Look at the person who treats you well the way you treat them, instead of putting them on top and encouraging their arrogance.
Sagittarius: Low Self-Esteem
The card that came out to you is his The star, retreatedshowing confidence and lack of confidence. You’re a great entertainer, Sagittarius, and you can build up any partner with your endless optimism and enthusiasm. But it’s not your job to be someone’s source of confidence – yes you should encourage them, but their lack of faith in themselves shouldn’t drag you down. Find someone who is as confident and confident as you are – that’s a better match for you than someone who suffers from chronic insecurities.
Capricorn: Independence
Your card is 5 of Pentaclesindicating financial difficulties and difficulties. This may surprise you, Capricorn, but the toxic trait you want in a partner is trust. It’s amazing because you’re independent, and you don’t like a sticky day. But secretly, you choose a partner who needs you more than you need him – it proves your worth and makes you feel secure in the relationship. You have to work on your insecurities in love, find someone who is as independent as you. Mutual respect and admiration are essential to the success of your relationship.
Aquarius: Disinterested
The card that appeared in your reading is Knight of Swords, reversedwhich shows a lack of concentration. You tend to want what you can’t have, Aquarius – someone who won’t focus on you will drive you crazy. You will chase them until they become interested in you, and then lose interest quickly. You must recognize this habit and break it if you want to find lasting love. Find the person you want the way you want it in the first place, instead of turning love into a game to be won.
Pisces: Mystery
Your tarot card The Moon, retreatedwhich means defeating scams. You tend to fall for someone’s imagination rather than who you really are, Pisces. You like a mysterious person, because if you know a little about him, you can reveal your dreams to him. But when you find out who they really are, the illusion disappears, and you fall out of love. Look for someone who is upfront and open from the start. Make a conscious effort to learn about their personality rather than mold them into what you want them to be in your mind.
