ARIES
Apologize.
There is no work around with Aries. Whether you’ve started the fight or not, it’s not over until you’ve dealt with evil Aries to the end. The longer you get to know yourself, the better you’ll be at doing what you’ve done most. Even if it was revenge for something they did to you, just open the conversation with a I’m guilty. They know what they’ve done, but you won’t hear it until you raise your white flag first.
TAURUS
Point out how stupid war is.
When you face a bull, you will inevitably look up from the struggle and forget what started it in the first place. If you’re humble enough to say this out loud, Taurus will admit that they too have suffered from sudden amnesia. If you both accept the fact that you’re very upset because you’re just upset, fighting becomes something that neither of you takes personally. Although they are quick to anger, they know how to let things go easily.
GEMINI
Remind them that you care about them.
A Gemini just wants to know that you still love him, even if he’s literally driving you up the wall. You can tell that on their faces. I love you, but I am very angry. I love you, but you’re annoying me right now. I love you, but if you leave bitten nails on the coffee table I will lose it. Most of the time, they will agree with some points of your argument. They just want to know that it will take more than a fight to leave them.
CANCER
Plan for future improvements.
When you butt heads with Cancer, they are very careful not to repeat the same argument or misunderstanding twice. Apologies are welcome, but they would like the two of you to come up with a better communication strategy next time. They want to learn about you, how you fight, and how you like to be talked about when it comes to difficult subjects. They are a true partner who will meet you halfway and respect where you are coming from. Don’t take this for granted, and give them equal effort on your part.
LEO
Prove yourself worthy to their friends.
Leo will forgive you because they hate conflict, but you will have to return to the good deeds of their friends again for the war to really end. Even the smartest Leo can’t hide his feelings from his closest friends, so don’t be surprised when everyone suspects there’s trouble in paradise and questions your worth. You just need the confidence to show your face and let everyone see how much you love and respect each other. A small tiff isn’t enough to really rock the boat.
VIRGO
Apology and action.
Virgos will never trust words alone. They are wordsmiths. They know how easy it is to put together a sentence in the hope of fixing something and getting out of the doghouse, so you will need to go the extra mile so that they really trust your sincerity. Put your money where your mouth is. Make a reservation, pull out the romantic stops, and plan something to show them how much they mean to you. Fighting means treating them like royalty until everyone is forgiven.
LIBRA
Quality time as soon as possible.
Because Libras are a sign of equality, you need to create an experience that will stand up to the battle you just had. Cooking them a meal, curling up on the sofa with a favorite TV show on, or taking a trip. Small daily moments of quality time will help you repair the damaged bonds in your conflict. They want nothing more, just something to swing your emotions back in a positive way. If the source of the solution (you) is the same as the source of the conflict, they will begin to trust your ability to work through the conflict together.
SCORPIO
Let them cool down.
Scorpios need their space. Sometimes they need to be left alone before the conflict gets really intense. It can be difficult for those who like to talk things out, but it is important to give them the space they need to think and consider all sides of the argument. Don’t be surprised if your Scorpio just wants to pretend nothing happened. Once they have solved the problem in their mind, they expect some kind of psychological solution to appear, without explaining it to you. You can push them, gently, but sometimes it’s better to just accept that they’re over it.
SAGITTARIUS
Talk to each other.
Sagittarius wants their day in court, so sometimes you just need to let them have it. Listen to what they have to say, but also express your individual concerns. Since they are stubborn, they cannot deny a well-defined point of view, and they are able to accept that conflicting points of view can coexist. What they want most is to be understood, so if you can repeat what they said, there is a good chance that it will cool their anger.
CAPRICORN
Commit to compromise.
Capricorns treat relationships like a business. Regardless of the heated arguments that happen behind closed doors, all parties want what they think is best for business. The only thing left to do is to come to a consensus and present a united front. In romance, everyone has an equal share, so no one has the upper hand. That give-and-take aspect is what makes the relationship valuable to them, and they will be ready to pivot as “market needs” change.
AQUARIUS
Praise their argument.
Even if the two of you are in total conflict, if you can agree on one side of Aquarius’s point of view, they will likely be willing to agree to disagree. Perhaps you can agree that they are passionate about a subject, educated in math, or sensitive to the needs of others. Whatever it is, taking the time to find that excitement in a confrontational situation will help ease the tension. They will admire someone who adheres to their beliefs as well.
PISCES
Give them some TLC.
Pisces just need to be born a little. You have to remember that they hate conflict and are known to be sensitive. So after the fight, you need something that will be fat. Be loving, talk to them patiently, and give them time to be at home in a cool place. Let them take control and overcome the stress and anxiety of being at odds with someone they love the most. They will avoid fighting for as long as possible, and need time to recover from the fall.
