We all know that person (or maybe WE ARE that person) – the one who can’t be told what to do.
When you make a suggestion or ask them to do something, they do the exact opposite, whether it’s in their best interest or not. Some people just can’t stand direction, and astrology may have something to do with it. Here are four zodiac signs that respond well to change of mind, and how you can get them to take your advice.
Aries
Aries people can’t control because they are rude and independent. As the first sign of the zodiac, Aries is the “child” of astrology. Telling them what to do is like telling a toddler to go to sleep right after giving them sugar – it won’t happen. They are so independent that they will reject your advice because they want to make their own way in the world and do things for themselves. They would rather mess up and learn from their mistakes than do what someone else tells them. Also, Aries is ruled by Mars, the planet of war, which makes Aries people naturally quarrelsome and confrontational.
Reverse psychology works for them because they take it as courage, and they can’t resist good courage. If you say something like, “Well, I would NOT do (fill in the blank) in your situation, that sounds too dangerous or scary,” they hear, “You should do (fill in the blank) because it’s the coolest way to deal with it, most people are too afraid to try, but not you!”
Leo
Leos can’t be told what to do because they like to be in charge, and taking orders makes them feel inferior. And, as a fixed sign, they are very set in their ways and reluctant to accept criticism or advice. As the zodiac is symbolized by the proud lion, Leos consider themselves the leader of the pack. They form small families, or packs, everywhere they go, making friends easily with their warmth and good humor. They also see themselves as the heads of these families, automatically assuming a leadership role.
If you want to get a Leo to do something, you have to convince them that it was their idea. If you’re both deciding what to have for dinner and you really want pizza, try saying something like, “Didn’t you mention the other day that you’re craving pizza? There’s a new place nearby that we can be the first to try, if you like. An invitation like this is too good for a Leo to resist – make it sound like it’s something they’ve really thought about and wanted, AND they’re the first to try the trend and tell their packs/family/friends with it.
Scorpio
It is VERY, VERY HARD to get a Scorpio to do what you want. That’s because Scorpio is a water sign, and water signs are known for being sensitive and sensitive. Because of these characteristics, Scorpios know what you think and feel, so it is impossible to deceive them. In addition, Scorpio is ruled by Pluto, the planet of power. This means that Scorpios love to control – they like to be the ones manipulating people, not the other way around.
If you try to get a Scorpio to take your advice, there won’t be any deception – he will see it quickly and shut up. You should say as little as possible and be honest. You can try to tell them honestly what you can do, but make sure it doesn’t come off as a suggestion. Say, “I can (fill in the blank) in that situation, but that’s just me. What do you think?” Listen to them without correcting, interrupting, or trying to force your point of view on them again. Then say, “Whatever you think is best.” Plant a seed in their mind by telling them what you are going to do without telling them to do it. Scorpios are overthinkers, so don’t worry, they will continue to consider what you have to say and may even take your advice back.
Aquarius
Aquarius is perhaps the first star to respond well to psychic reactions. And there’s almost zero twist or nuance to it; you just have to be direct and tell them to do the exact opposite of what you think they should do. This is because Aquarius is ruled by Uranus, the planet of rebellion and individualism. Thanks to Uranus, Aquarians are the ultimate opponents; they love to play devil’s advocate, and they HATE being told what to do. They prefer to forge their own new path rather than take the well-traveled route. Their innovative minds are always looking for new or different ways of doing things, and they reject traditional ways.
If you tell Aquarius what to do, it will do the opposite – everything. You are single. Time. When it’s important for them to be on time, say something like, “Take your time when you arrive, everyone knows it’s nice to be late for these things.” If you see big red flags in their relationship, jump on their partner and say “you’re so happy to see them in a stable, committed, traditional, normal relationship.” Of course, dishonesty doesn’t feel good, and it can backfire. But the truth is, you’re more likely to get an Aquarius to do what you want by suggesting the opposite.
